The Red Flag Playbook | Real Life Coach by PeyHire

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Charm Versus Character

Let's Talk About It

Example: A new date impresses the entire table, then speaks cruelly to the server. Charm and character can coexist in the same moment. Observe treatment when admiration offers no reward, rather than letting a polished introduction outweigh conduct toward others.

Guided Activity

Your Working Page

Record the contrasting behaviors without assigning a diagnosis.

What behavior impressed you?What behavior concerned you?Who received each kind of treatment?What explanation would require guessing?What question or limit follows from the facts?

Affirmation for this resource

I can slow down when important questions remain unanswered.

Opening Prayer

Lord, strengthen my judgment and connect me with trustworthy support. Help me notice conduct clearly and protect my choices. Amen.

Scripture Reflection

Matthew 7:16 (NIV) · Patterns and fruit reveal more than polished words.

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