What a Boundary Actually Is
Let's Talk About It
A boundary describes your participation. A request asks someone else to change; a boundary clarifies what you will do if the situation continues. Confusing the two creates repeated arguments about controlling another adult. You can be clear without pretending you control their response.
Put the Idea to Work
Rewrite a demand as a limit on your time, space, money, or involvement.
Affirmation for this resource
My clear limits can leave room for willing generosity.
Opening Prayer
God, teach me limits that are honest, humane, and possible to keep. Help me accept that another person may dislike my no. Amen.
Scripture Reflection
Matthew 5:37 (NIV) · Clear yes and no responses can be honest, respectful, and faithful.